Words divide; Love unites.

I haven’t posted for a while so I thought I’d copy/paste one from my other, mostly inactive, blog. This was published there on May 25, 2010. It is primarily about religion, but applies to any groupings or divisions shaped and defined by words, such as ethnic, racial or political differences, sexual orientation, beliefs about educational philosophies, child rearing, debates about global warming, conservation, etc.. We are all in this mysterious thing called life. We need to pull together. Let’s let Love prevail.

Here’s my old post (slightly modified):

I have heard that there are well over two thousand Christian denominations and countless divisions in other religions too. And I ask what causes the divisions? Both within and between religions? Words. That’s it. Just words. And they are man-made words. Words thought up by (mostly) men. Human ideas about how it should be. People’s ideas about how they have it right and everyone else has it wrong.

These words cause “us-and-them” groupings and divisions. People gather around one set of words and take comfort in the false certainty that their words are “right” and others’ words are wrong, or at least mostly wrong. Then they get puffed up with pride in their superiority and feel they must defend and assert their “words” even at the cost of shunning the “others”, or even killing them. See the Inquisition, witch-burning, pogroms, suicide bombings, communist re-education camps,the KKK, the Holocaust, Rwanda,… just for starters. 

But words are just symbols. They just stand for reality. They are not reality. The map is not the territory. Reality doesn’t change. Words do. We used to describe the world as flat. Everyone believed that. Now we describe it as a sphere, a ball. The world hasn’t changed but our words about it, and our beliefs, have changed a lot.

I can count on reality but I can’t count on words. Words are useful to the extent that they provide a predictive model that helps me prepare for what is coming next. But in the history of humankind the models have always required updating and improving as our understanding grew. Clinging to a model and defending it with one’s life betrays a lack of understanding of the tentativeness of models. Even worse is defending it by taking the lives of others.

There is an analogy from the East:  words, dogmas, doctrines, beliefs, creeds, are seen as a finger pointing to the moon. The moon is Love. It’s the moon that matters. It’s the moon that is the object worthy of attention. It would be silly to stare at the finger (words), polish its nail, put a ring on it, worship it… all the while failing to notice the moon (Love)!

Now suppose there are six, eight or ten of us standing in a circle at night. We are each pointing a finger at the moon and at the same time we are each gnawing on our neighbour’s finger trying to destroy it, while at the same time trying to protect our own finger from the teeth of our other neighbour. Nobody has time to look at the moon (Love)!

Fingers (words, beliefs) will all age, wither and die. 

Only the moon (Love) will remain!

Words, dogmas, doctrines , beliefs, creeds, will all age, wither and die (how many revisions have there been down through history?). Only Love will remain. Only Love is a constant.

And so with gratitude I will focus on Love. I will practice returning in gratefulness to Love whenever I wander or deviate from the path.

Love is a fire. May my divisive words be consumed by the fire of Love.

May Love abound. May Love flourish. May only Love remain.

May all beings everywhere be filled with Love.

  

I did a follow-up post later called “Bent fingers, Blind eyes.” It was about corrupt or misleading beliefs (crooked fingers) and about some people’s inability (blind eyes) to put even good beliefs into practice (inability to see the moon or Love). But perhaps that’s a post for another day.  ;)

I hope this post isn’t divisive. I hope it fosters unification in Love. Let me know what you think.

Pride and Arrogance (or the end of questioning).

But I now seem to have settled into a role of “pursuer of many questions” and it seems a very comfortable fit for now. Will I succumb to the temptation of falling for the security of a fixed and rigid belief system again? Only time will tell where the spiral will lead.

That is a quote from my third post dated July 20, 2010. The spiral has led to a return to faith and trust.

When Job, in the Hebrew Bible (Old Testament), pursued God with questions he was simply answered with a demonstration of God’s majesty. No other answer was forthcoming. I think this is because the human mind is just not capable of comprehending God and his reasons for doing what he does.

Hence I am faced with my pride and arrogance in presuming to question. 

Psalm 131 tev

Lord, I have given up my pride

and turned away from my arrogance.

I am not concerned with great matters

or with subjects too difficult for me.

Instead , I am content and at peace.

As a child lies quietly in its mother’s arms,

so my heart is quiet within me.

Israel, trust in the Lord

now and forever.

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And so I shall simply sit down, shut up, and trust in the Lord.

As I write this there have been 90 visits to this blog since it started less than a week ago. To all who have visited: Thank you. Your interest and comments are appreciated.

May peace and joy be yours in abundance!

 

 

 

Living the Questions

I know that the questions raised in my first post have been wrestled with by philosophers and theologians for millenia and by psychologists for more than a century and most recently by neuroscientists. I don’t expect to find answers that have eluded them.

The purpose of this blog is to engage in the game of living the questions. The exploration, the chase, the hunt is where the action is. Answers are frozen. Questions are fluid. It seems that whenever humankind has come up with the answer, subsequent developments have demanded a revision or a complete overthrow of the original certainty. So in actual fact I will never arrive at an answer. I will just skirt around the edge as I pursue the next question.

There are many blogs of one sort of fundamentalism or another touting the set and rigid answers of particular religious or political systems. This blog will instead play with the questions.

Some Good Questions

On this blog I hope to explore just how much of me is authentic, genuine, real, and how much is the result of social conditioning, programming, and religious or political indoctrination.

Who am I ? That’s a good question. I am often convinced that I know the answer, only to find out shortly thereafter that I don’t know.

Is there a “god”? Integral to this search will be an exploration of whether or not there is a “god” and, if there is one, what his/her nature may be like. Part of that will be an examination of whether or not prayer “works” and if so in what way and for whom.

Where do I come from? Why am I here? Where am I going? I anticipate looking at these questions as part of my search for who I am.

Of what does my “core” consist? Is there at my core a “Basic Goodness” as the Shambhala Buddhists teach? Is there “That which is of God in every (hu)man” as the Quakers claim? Is there a line separating good from evil running through my heart as Solzhenitsyn believed? Am I the temple of the Holy Spirit as St. Paul proclaimed? Is my heart of hearts good, or, as Calvin taught, totally depraved? Will something survive death?

Can words ever capture or describe reality? If not, then this whole blog will be just noise – a very real possibility!

Will you join me in my search for “me”? Please comment on my posts. I welcome, and I am sure I will benefit from, your criticisms, comments, knowledge, suggestions, wisdom, experience.

I make no claim to “know” anything so please don’t let anything I may say spoil your own faith. What I write is just “opinion”. Take it as such. I may change my opinions almost daily! That has been my habit.

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